I'm sitting on the floor supervising my 3 year old's bath while she is home sick from daycare. Probably a more common scene for Mom's who also run their own small businesses. Multi-tasking is a fact of life when you have kids, a home, a husband, pets, and a business. Unfortunately it is all too easy to have the "I want it all" approach and end up overwhelmed, overscheduled, and unhappy overall.
In 2009 I wanted it all. I wanted to have a nice and organized house, spend fun quality time with my kids, grow my business, and maybe even sneak in a date night or two with my husband. And you know what, I ended the year unhappy. My husband, who is much more willing to ask the tough questions, made me face the reality that I just can't have it all...not right now at least.
So for 2010 I'm going to make some hard decisions about how I spend my time. And I expect, being able to really commit to a few things is going to make me much happier overall. It'll make me a better wife, a better mom, and a better business owner.
My number one priority for 2010 is to get healthy. I've completely slacked in the last year on this. After getting in great shape and loosing weight in 2008 when I was only working part time, I slipped into very bad habits last year because I didn't plan how I was going to exercise and eat healthy meals. Instead I stopped exercising all together and pretty much ate some form of delivery or carry out for the majority of my meals. NOT GOOD! So the very first thing on my list for next year is myself. Exercising and planning for health meals will be an essential part of my year. I know I'll have more energy and feel better, and it is an investment in myself that will last much longer than almost anything else I do.
Also for next year my husband and I are embarking on a major software project together. It will be a tool set for photographers. Some of you may know that my husband is a very gifted software developer...the majority of the projects he consults on are multi-million dollar projects. So while the stuff we've outlined is complicated...I'm very confident that we'll be able to take a completely different approach than anyone else! So that will be taking up the majority of my time over the next year. More about that soon.
Photography will still play a role in my life - and an important one. It'll just be a smaller slice of the pie. I'll be more selective about the clients I take on to make sure we are a good match. And I know that will make me much happier about the sessions I have.
So as part of this planning processes I made a chart of my days of the week and my projected time for each task. It was really eye opening. The first time I did it I couldn't get the # hours to be under 24! And realistically I need it to be more around 20 or so hours to give me some wiggle room for things that just come up (like kids sick at home!).
While I could adjust week to week, this would be a plan for getting though my week. Have you tried this yourself? I just made a google spreadsheet with the days of the week and the task areas....then put the hours per day for each task. Then I created a chart from that because I like to see things visually.
Try this for yourself. Ask yourself some hard questions about your year - and what is realistic. You'll be happier if you do!









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